Kind of Attention - Church Skits About Relationships

Summary

Jules and Mara love each other deeply, but they keep arguing about one deceptively simple question: “What kind of attention actually matters?” Jules wants consistent texts and verbal check-ins. Mara wants real time together without phones. One day, they add physical affection and thoughtful actions into the debate, and suddenly every moment becomes a hilarious “love audit” where both are trying to prove they care… while accidentally proving they don’t understand each other.

A Narrator steps in like a translator, guiding them through warm, comedic scenarios that reveal a deeper truth: love isn’t just about your preferred kind of attention. Love is about presence, intentional listening, and choosing to show up in the way that matters to your spouse. Anchored in biblical truth about patience, kindness, and selfless love, the skit ends with both spouses learning that true attention is not loud or performative, it’s consistent, thoughtful, and personal.

Theme

Love means showing up in the way that matters most.

Characters

(4 actors)
• Narrator – warm guide, funny but grounded
• Jules – wants texts/words, constant connection
• Mara – wants quality time/presence, no distractions
• Pastor/Coach Sam – gentle counselor/mentor with quick wisdom

When

Modern day

Props & Costumes

• Two chairs and small table (home/counseling corner)
• Two phones (or props)
• Sticky notes and pen
• Small gift bag (optional)
• Kitchen towel or small chore prop (acts of service bit)
• Couch pillow/blanket (optional)

Why

1 Corinthians 13:4–7 – Love is patient, kind, not self-seeking.
James 1:19 – Be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to become angry.

How

Two stage areas: “home” (chairs/table) and “coach corner” (two chairs). Quick shifts with Narrator cues.

Time

10 minutes